Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. 1 Corinthians 7:1-7
Paul’s instructions to husbands and wives are timeless and wise. It is meant to protect both husband and wife from regret, pain, and grief. Obviously the world views sexual intimacy as a free-for-all. We’re reaping the consequences of the 1960s sexual revolution today in relationships specifically and in our culture as a whole.
Today, the application is two-fold.
First, thank God for the wisdom in these verses. Yes, it is a narrow view of sex and marriage, just as it was intended. Secondly, pray for those growing up into this culture. The hurdles and challenges they face are enormous and burdensome. Pray specifically by name of someone you know who will be facing some of these challenges.