Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen and understand. What goes into a man’s mouth does not make him unclean, but what comes out of the mouth, that is what makes him unclean.” Matthew 15:10-11
The tongue. James talks about “taming the tongue.” I think you can tell a lot about a person by listening to that person speak. And even more so when the pressure is on in any given situation. We often say things we wish we could take back in the passion of an argument or heated discussion. All of us are guilty of it.
But here’s something to keep in mind: the world is watching. They are listening to every single foul word or unkind word or damaging word we say. And they are also listening to how we react.
Back in the day before I became a Believer, I heard someone rattle off a string of profanity followed by every blasphemous word you could think of. Another bystander simply asked the person, “Do you kiss your mother with those lips?” It was a fitting rebuke, and the person apologized.
Jesus even cut to the matter quicker: it’s what’s inside that matters.
So, here’s the question we need to ask ourselves regularly: what’s in my heart that would make me cuss like a sailor?