Now two prostitutes came to the king and stood before him. One of them said, "My lord, this woman and I live in the same house. I had a baby while she was there with me. The third day after my child was born, this woman also had a baby. We were alone; there was no one in the house but the two of us.
Then the king said, "Bring me a sword." So they brought a sword for the king. He then gave an order: "Cut the living child in two and give half to one and half to the other."
The woman whose son was alive was filled with compassion for her son and said to the king, "Please, my lord, give her the living baby! Don't kill him!" But the other said, "Neither I nor you shall have him. Cut him in two!"
Then the king gave his ruling: "Give the living baby to the first woman. Do not kill him; she is his mother." 1 Kings 3:16-17, 24-26
We're familiar with this story. It is the first time that Solomon's wisdom is tested. Solomon's task was to do the right thing, to discern who was telling the truth and telling a lie. Solomon got the reaction he wanted. He knew the "mother instinct" would kick in. Most mothers would have compassion on their own children even if it meant giving them away than to lose the children altogether.
Often we are faced with extremely difficult decisions that must be made quickly. We may not have time to weigh all the options that are available, so what do we do? Read through the list of wisdom qualifiers in James 3:17-18 (pure, peace loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere). Any decision that meets all of those qualities must be better than those that don't. Unfortunately, we rarely have 100% of all the facts when we make a decision.
Sometimes we just have to make the decision. It'll be okay. Really, it will.