A violent man entices his neighbor and leads him down a path that is not good. Proverbs 16:29
Each of us have known angry and bitter people (which often leads to violence). Even on their best days, they can be influential. The Bible warns us against being enticed by them. They bring you down and incite you towards doing no good.
Part of the wisdom that God provides is knowing who these people are and avoiding them completely. It is very difficult to dissuade violent people so it’s best to steer clear of them. Pray that God will help you with that discernment.